Being proud.

Aren't we all proud of our children whey they master a goal you've set for them or accomplish a difficult task for their developmental level? And if we're truly honest, aren't we a bit proud of ourselves as well? Yes, most of us are indeed proud. This is a dangerous path to follow. Be careful in that you are not proud of yourself as a parent, but proud of Christ who resides in you that gives you the wisdom to parent such a wonderful, amazing child.

Furthermore, be careful in that you value the talents your children have as gifts from God and not gifts from you. He has given your child special talents, big and small, and absolutely none of them come from you. Some of their talents may mimic yours, and this is without coincidence because it enables you to enjoy your time together, but it still is not from you. Praise God for giving your children such special talents and for giving YOU special talents in which to teach them how to use their gifts in a spiritual way.

James 4:6 God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble.

Grace is for sure a good thing.